On a friend's blog...

“The needs that weren't fulfilled by your parents won't be fulfilled by your mate. “


...there is ‘love’ and there is love...
love is healing…
but our intentions are sometimes not aligned with love
sometimes we have obstructions to love…
like damage and stuff arising from childhood or other events in our lives…

sometimes we turn to another for our healing
when in fact we need to take on this responsibility ourselves…

sometimes the person we turn to is even more wounded than we are…
has even more obscurations…
and we end up in a mighty muddle…

sometimes we meet beings…
...may be a lover or teacher in other ways…
who have less obscurations
and their open flowing love
may help us along our path of healing
… if we are open to this experience….

mmm… love is all there is;

our wounds but temporary visitors;

initiations…